Life After Work

You've done everything right.
And that's exactly the problem.

From "is this it?"... drifting... to waking up knowing "THIS is it".

Step into Your Vibrant Elderhood — Start Your Free 10-Day Path

So why doesn’t it feel the way you imagined?

For many people, this moment arrives when freedom comes first — and aliveness hasn’t yet found its new place.

Your whole adult life, you were driven by responsibility — showing up, doing your job, paying the bills, taking care of others. There was structure. There was purpose.
There was a clear sense of what your days were for.

Now you’re retired. You have time — more than ever. And yet, instead of feeling free, you feel unsettled, unfocused, and unsure how to spend the decades ahead.

Somewhere underneath it all is a quiet fear:
that if you don’t figure this out, the fullness you once had in work won’t automatically carry over — and life ahead might feel like it’s slipping by.

This isn’t about keeping busy. It’s about reclaiming your capacity to be fully alive — not just occupied.

Becoming a Vibrant Elder
Requires a Mindset Shift:

Becoming a Vibrant Elder means shifting from living by duty to living by curiosity and contribution:
— Let your days be shaped by what feels alive, not what feels obligated
— Let yourself ask the questions you’ve been avoiding — not because something’s wrong, but because something unfinished is beckoning
— Let contribution be born from joy and insight, not convenience
— Let your life be something you feel, not something you measure

Yes, it’s scary. You know that if you don’t use your energy, your talents, your time, it can slip away.
You’ve tried hobbies, travelled, ticked off the bucket list — and yet something still feels missing.

YOU'RE NOT EXHAUSTED BECAUSE YOU DO TOO MUCH; You’re exhausted because you’re not spending enough time on what truly matters to you.

Between what was
and what's calling

From What Was…
You’ve closed one chapter of your life, but the next one hasn’t revealed itself yet. You feel the pull to come alive again — in your body, your relationships, and the way your days unfold.

To What’s Calling…
You want clarity about what genuinely nourishes you, not just what fills the hours. You’re longing for meaning, connection, and purpose — something that feels real, not manufactured. This feeling isn’t a problem. It’s a signal: you’re ready for something deeper.

If you wake up with time but no horizon… If travel and hobbies feel like distractions, not fulfilment…
If you miss the engagement and challenge of your work more than you expected…
Then what you’re experiencing isn’t a flaw or a failure — it’s a call into a different way of living.

Hi, I’m Anthony— life coach and retreat leader specialising in meaning and playful living.

I work with people who are stepping out of long careers and established roles — and finding that freedom, on its own, isn’t enough.

I help people navigate this transition consciously:
to land back into their lives, reconnect with their vitality, and shape a next chapter that feels alive, meaningful, and rooted in who they are now — not who they used to be.

I don’t offer quick fixes or busywork.
I offer space, structure, and guidance for this particular crossing — from what was, into what’s calling.

What you do with your time shapes your life

Start the conversation about your next chapter

PLAY AS A PATH BACK TO YOU

Playful mapping is a way to rediscovering what you love and what puts a smile on your face, giving you back the reason for getting out of bed in the morning.

Using the playful path as our guide, while having fun we’ll get you back in shape, bring laughter back into your relationships,  feel like living your best adventure yet.
Together, we’ll explore a holistic approach to well-being, where your curiosity and moments of delight drive lasting, mindful transformation.

Through an exploration of your unique play personality and the elements of the playful path — Vibrant Body, Joyful Mind, and Loving Heart — you’ll tap into your potential so that the flow state becomes part of who you are.

What do I mean by play?

Jane Goodall
Jane Goodall
Jim Carrey
Jim Carrey
Albert Einstein
Albert Einstein
Jamie Oliver
Jamie Oliver

What have Jane Goodall, Jim Carrey, Albert Einstein,
Jamie Oliver...all got in common?

They didn’t stop playing when life got serious – they leaned in.

To curiosity.
To creativity.
To joy.

You can do the same.
And this chapter of life can become your most vibrant and playful yet.

Flip the Script

Shift from what you think you should be doing to what you want to do, even if you don’t know quite want that is.
You thought this would be everything you wanted but now you’re here you’re no longer sure.

Light Your Spark

Once you ignite that spark within you, it will illuminate all areas of your life.

Start Your 10-Day Path

"Why do we fill our lives with things we don’t care about... and why do the things that bring us alive get pushed aside?"

If this stirs something in you, let’s explore it — together:

  • Turn free time into fulfilled time

  • Rediscover your natural curiosity and creativity

  • Give back in ways that feel light, joyful, and real

  • Laugh more, worry less, and savour each day

  • Walk your next chapter with purpose — while having tons of fun!

If this speaks to you, you’re in the right place. Let’s begin the journey of rediscovering your playful spirit and your vitality.

Ready to take action? Let’s make it happen — together.

Let’s talk about what matters next. A free 30‑minute, no‑pressure conversation about your next chapter.
"Life coaching with Anthony Trahair is an injection of 'applied optimism', an opportunity to get out of the river of one's everyday life and sit on the bank in good company, to learn how to give the right name to things and sow the seeds of change and awareness. Anthony manages to be light without ever being superficial, to laugh without ever mocking, to open horizons without hyperbole or flights of fancy. I could call him the Tom Bombadil of personal development."
NICHOLAS BAWTREE​
NICHOLAS BAWTREE​director of the Magazine Terra Nuova
“Anthony is someone I’d love to go on an adventure with. He brings such lightness, sincerity, playfulness and a heart that is strong, full, open and clear. This book isn’t a ‘how to’ book. It’s not full of formulas and aphorisms. It’s full of something much more useful. It’s full of stories”.
Tad Hargrave
Tad HargraveEthical Marketer, Founder of MarketingforHippies.com

You don’t have to do this alone

I’m here to support you every step of the way.

TESTIMONIALS

Life coaching with Anthony Trahair is an injection of 'applied optimism', an opportunity to get out of the river of one's everyday life and sit on the bank in good company, to learn how to give the right name to things and sow the seeds of change and awareness. Anthony manages to be light without ever being superficial, to laugh without ever mocking, to open horizons without hyperbole or flights of fancy. I could call him the Tom Bombadil of personal development.
NICHOLAS BAWTREE
NICHOLAS BAWTREE
On a weekend and thanks to understanding my play personality from Anthony, I simply let go and started dancing at home, unapologetically. Soon after I chose JOY. I came back to life! I went back to dance classes, determined. Music, singing and improvising became part of my life and my profession. My whole family is back into music as well. It's been beautifully, magically turning my life around to ease, peace, love. Since that session with Anthony I've been living more and more joy and playfulness. Now abundance is my life; I feel ME again. Grateful for the gift that keeps on giving!
Andrea Perut
Andrea Perut
“Anthony is kind, enthusiastic and a great motivator. He took the time to truly understand what is important to me, then suggested a fantastic way I could apply my skills and passions. He also set me simple actions to turn this exciting vision into a reality!”
Natalie Tuppen
"I started coaching with Anthony because I trusted him and I liked the idea of being able to be supported in an important moment of choices and decisions. It was a great process that I highly recommend! Each meeting had its own preparation and meaning. Anthony has the ability to take you on a journey of discovery by generously sharing his knowledge in coaching but also across the spectrum. His lightness, spontaneity but also great intuition makes these meetings a way to reflect on one's own personal mechanisms and on Life in general. Gracias!!!!
Aurora de Simoni
Aurora de Simoni
When exploring something new, there are two contrasting emotions — curiosity and fear. The day with Anthony was a day of discovery, of myself and of others, but with the safety net of Anthony’s kindness I felt safe to explore and experiment.
Lilia Pavone
Lilia Pavone
This day was a very positive surprise. Through play, I had the opportunity to get to know and build meaningful connections with people who were strangers to me. I discovered that play is something serious, even though it is light and fun, because it can help me face certain aspects of daily life and relationships with others — and with myself. I take home a beautiful experience that I’ll carry inside and that will bear fruit. Thank you, Ana.
Ana
I highly recommend joining Anthony's work because you will seriously have fun — and you’ll leave the day feeling nourished, as if you’d feasted on things both good and wholesome.
Vittoria Tosoni Begatti
Vittoria Tosoni Begatti
This experience reminded me that playing makes me feel good, free, and awakens the beauty of my heart. Living this experience made me realise that spontaneity and curiosity awaken in me great creativity — a quality of the soul that makes me feel alive, present, and in harmony with myself. For me, play is the harmony of relationships — letting go, rejoicing. Thank you so much, Anthony, for letting me live this beautiful experience of sharing.
Emanuele
Thank you, Anthony, for the research you are carrying out in the field of playfulness — seeing it no longer as an end in itself, but as an attitude to experiment with and apply in every area of life. Through it we can discover and activate a new kind of creativity, more capable of connecting elements that appear distinct or distant from each other. It’s a tool that exponentially deepens the way we experience life through playfulness, enriching the quality of our lives. Like all things, it needs to be practised — and perhaps it can feel challenging at first — but it allows us to live a rich, stimulating, and above all enjoyable life.
Luca Pompei
Luca Pompei
I arrived expecting to learn a lot about playfulness — things to take home and apply. Instead, I return home with the clear perception that playfulness is a vast field that I’ve only just begun to explore, and that it deserves to be investigated, deepened, studied, and experimented with whenever the opportunity arises. In short, this is the beginning of a journey — one where I have found wonderful companions for this path of discovery. People with whom I hope to continue exploring the world of playfulness, and who already strengthen my will to keep searching simply by existing. How beautiful it is to meet such different people in such a simple way — each one a great richness. I also take home an unexpected brightness and a surprising encounter with a simple, frugal lifestyle, in touch with nature. I feel much richer and more present — ready to begin again, open to the future.
Greta Aliprandi
I am incredibly grateful to Anthony and Sara for sharing this wonderful place with me for three weeks. Among olive trees, mulberries and rolling hills … I was able to learn so much about permaculture, but also about myself, through the many great conversations around the dinner table and while working.
Leonel, Germany
Having the privilege to work on Anthony’s farm this past May was a peaceful and heart-warming experience. … the work was very manageable … I truly appreciated being able to slow down, get my hands in the soil, and soak up the calm rhythm of life on the garden!
Natalie, USA
If you want to experience a life in nature that nourishes your body and your mind by spending time in a beautiful place in nature, surrounded by loving people and animals, Anthony and Sara’s place is a great choice! … The time here was so much more than expected! I learned a lot, met wonderful people and loved to just BE on the land.
Maud, Netherlands

Through my coaching and retreats, you’ll reconnect with your vibrant energy, embrace playfulness, and rediscover your purpose. Through live sessions, playful practices you’ll set foot on a path to a joyful, creative, and meaningful life.

"Life coaching with Anthony Trahair is an injection of 'applied optimism', an opportunity to get out of the river of one's everyday life and sit on the bank in good company, to learn how to give the right name to things and sow the seeds of change and awareness. Anthony manages to be light without ever being superficial, to laugh without ever mocking, to open horizons without hyperbole or flights of fancy. I could call him the Tom Bombadil of personal development."
NICHOLAS BAWTREE​
NICHOLAS BAWTREE​director of the Magazine Terra Nuova
“Anthony is someone I’d love to go on an adventure with. He brings such lightness, sincerity, playfulness and a heart that is strong, full, open and clear. This book isn’t a ‘how to’ book. It’s not full of formulas and aphorisms. It’s full of something much more useful. It’s full of stories”.
Tad Hargrave
Tad HargraveEthical Marketer, Founder of MarketingforHippies.com

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